Selling is All About Relationships

Selling is all about relationships. It demands honesty andInfluences we earn
integrity and a perception of caring. Success in life isRelationships we build
truly a matter of developing and maintainingConversations we conduct
relationships with others. Sales emulates life.Leveraging newfound knowledge
Selling is about interacting with people, other humanEngaging in new projects, collaborations...friendships.
beings. It is about connecting at a number of levels.And then, we make new connections...
Selling is all about relationships. It demands honesty andPeople tend to get hung up on technology, or at least
integrity and a perception of caring.allow it to get in their way. All too often it becomes
You do not necessarily need to be technicallyeither a crutch of dependence or an excuse for poor
proficient to be a success in selling. Althoughperformance. In reality, technology is a tool. It allows us
computers, projectors, Powerpoint presentations,to be more efficient and streamlined in our work, able
videos, spreadsheets, email campaigns, automated mailto respond faster and communicate with more people.
programs, CRM, Blackberry's, flash drives and otherOur technology tools are helpful and necessary assets,
technical marvels can certainly aid us in spreading ournever intended to replace the presentation or the
sales and marketing message, allowing us to reach outmessage. Consider the scenario of a sales
to more people faster than ever before, our successpresentation to a room full of engineers where your
is not at all dependent upon the technology we employ.projector bulb burns out, prohibiting your wonderful slide
The technology is simply an aid, a tool, a resource. It isshow that took you hours to prepare. Is your attitude in
simply a means to an end. You are actually thecheck? How are your nerves? Could you still deliver
message.the goods, capturing the attention of your audience
Mike Sansone recently wrote concerning this topic ondespite this setback? Will they even notice? It is up to
his Converstations blog. He created a wonderfulyou.
C.I.R.C.L.E. acronym as a reminder to us that successIt's relationships that ultimately matter. Those
in life is truly a matter of developing and maintainingrelationships start with honest communication and
relationships with others. Through these relationships,direct eye contact. They endure trials because you
our circle, we honesty try to benefit others and be aalways have the other person's best interests in mind.
resource for them. In this manner, the biblical laws ofIn the end, that's what will further our prosperity,
reciprocity take over and we benefit as well. Considerbringing ultimate satisfaction and allowing us to reach
Mike's thoughts as applied to sales. Successful selling isour stated goals. The relationships will remain when the
all about:hectic nature of the day has passed.
Connections we make